Consequences of Abuse

When a child is abused, many victims are created, including the child, the congregation, the child’s family, and even the family of the abuser. Of course, of foremost importance is the child who has been harmed and he or she must be cared for. Innocence has been stolen from the child and the trauma of abuse causes emotional injury as well as physical injury. Feelings of mistrust, guilt, and sheer emotional pain are scars that can last through the victim’s life. Spiritually, great harm is done to the child when a trusted person in the temple community perpetrates the abuse. The child may struggle with faith in Krishna and the temple with questions like: “If Krishna loves children, how could He let this happen to me?” and “How can the devotees go on chanting and taking part in kirtan, acting like nothing has happened?” Experiences of child abuse create emotional effects, as well as physical, that can be profound and affect the person well into their future, even to adulthood.
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If any such child abuse is brought to the attention of the child protection team, the team should act upon it with deliberation. The longer the abuse goes on, the more harm it does to the child. If you suspect a child is in a dangerous situation, take immediate action. Every team should learn and follow local laws on mandated reporting of child abuse to civil authorities. It is our responsibility to protect the children sent to us by Lord Krishna and Srila Prabhupada.

What is Child Abuse

Child abuse occurs when an individual misuses their power to harm or exploit a child. The power imbalance arises from factors such as size, position, knowledge, or financial control, making the child vulnerable and unable to stop the abusive behaviour.

An abuser leverages their position of power, while the child’s vulnerability stems from fewer available resources. Children are often physically smaller and weaker, less intellectually mature, and economically dependent on the abuser or another adult. This imbalance creates an environment where the misuse of power combined with opportunity, can lead to child abuse.

Understanding this dynamic along with knowledge of the different forms of abuse and neglect is critical to recognizing situations where a child may be at risk, ensuring that safeguards are in place to protect their well-being and prevent harm.

Signs and Symptoms of Abuse

If members of society are educated on the signs and indicators of abuse, it becomes possible to take timely action in reporting and investigating suspected cases. Early intervention is critical in ensuring that children subjected to any form of abuse receive help, safety, and protection as swiftly as possible. By fostering awareness and vigilance within the community, we can collectively work to prevent further harm and support the well-being of vulnerable children.


01 - Possible signs of Physical abuse

  • Unexplained injuries, such as bruises, broken bones (fractures) or burns

  • Injuries that don't match the given explanation

  • Injuries that aren't compatible with the child's developmental ability

  • Evidence of delayed or inappropriate treatment for injuries


02 - Possible signs of Emotional Abuse

  • Exhibits severe depression and/or withdrawal

  • Exhibits severe lack of self-esteem

  • Failure to thrive

  • Threatens or attempts suicide

  • Speech and/or eating disorders

  • Goes to extremes to seek adult approval

  • Extreme passive/aggressive behavior patterns


03 - Possible signs of Sexual Abuse

  • Unusually advanced sexual knowledge and/or behavior for child’s age and development stage

  • Depression – cries often for no apparent reason

  • Promiscuous behavior

  • Runs away from home and refuses to return

  • Difficulty walking or sitting

  • Bruised/bleeding in genital or anal areas

  • Exhibits frequent headaches, stomach aches, or extreme fatigue

  • Sexually transmitted diseases


04 - Possible signs of Neglect

  • Failure to thrive

  • A pattern of inappropriate dress for the climate

  • Begs or steals food; chronic hunger

  • Depression

  • Untreated medical condition

  • Poor hygiene

What is Child Protection

Child protection refers to the policies, procedures, and practices designed to safeguard children—defined as individuals aged 0–18 years, depending on the country or jurisdiction—from abuse, exploitation, neglect, and harm. It aims to create a safe, nurturing, and supportive environment that promotes children’s well-being and development.

Key aspects of child protection include:

  • Preventing abuse and neglect

  • Responding to abuse or harm

  • Developing policy frameworks

  • Creating safe environments

  • Advocacy and awareness

  • Support for vulnerable children

Child protection is a shared responsibility involving governments, communities, organizations, and individuals. Its ultimate goal is to ensure every child grows and thrives without fear of harm or exploitation.

At ISKCON, child protection is a priority and aligns closely with our core values of spiritual and organizational integrity. ISKCON has made significant strides in strengthening child protection policies, informed by expert-led reviews and investigations. These efforts reflect our ecclesiastical responsibilities to safeguard children. All ISKCON entities are required to comply with relevant civil and criminal laws, ensuring consistency and proactive approach to child protection globally.